Thank you!

Thank you very much for reading my blog.  I am going to take a break from writing.  Please take some time to read my earlier blogs.  My journey with Cassandra has been, and continues to be, challenging and beautiful.  I have grown so much in Faith and self knowledge.  Thank you for sharing this journey with me.

In saying goodbye for now, I would like to share a few tools that I have found very useful:

The writings of Gary Thomas put Christian marriage into perspective, and I highly recommend checking them out.  Here is a link to one of his books:  http://www.garythomas.com/sacred-marriage

As I have said many times, Holosync meditation has made a huge difference in my life.  Here is a link to learn more about that:  https://www.centerpointe.com/?aid=373010

May God bless you on your journey!  Let's pray for one another.

Christian

Hosea

I have always loved the song Hosea.  As a young man, it spoke to me as the ideal of love.  I never thought of being loved, I just wanted to love someone, and this song spoke to my heart as the goal to strive for.  It is amazing how our thoughts become reality.  This is actually a good thing, we should all strive to love our spouses the way that God loves us, but it does pose a real challenge for us as humans.  Here are the words to the song:

 

Hosea

Gregory Norbert

© 1972 The Benedictine Foundation of the State of Vermont

Come back to me with all your heart.

Don't let fear keep us apart.

Trees do bend, though straight and tall

so must we, to other's call.

Long have I waited for your coming,

home to me and living, deeply our new lives.

The wilderness will lead you

to your heart where I will speak.

Integrity and justice,

With tenderness, you shall know.

Long have I waited for your coming,

home to me and living, deeply our new lives.

You shall sleep secure with peace;

faithfulness will be your joy.

Long have I waited for your coming,

home to me and living, deeply our new lives.

Being married to someone with depression is much like this song.  They are with us for a time, and suddenly they are gone.  We say, "Come back to me with all your heart.  Don't let fear keep us apart."  Fear rules Cassandra's heart when she is gone.

Then I notice that Cassandra physically separates from me, she goes into the wilderness, so to speak, and then comes back.  She stays until she is taken over by fear again.

In the end, she finds peace and is forever faithful.  We live together in joy.  That is the power of love.

I wish to clarify in saying that I am not perfect in love as God is perfect in love.  Along with the trauma of her past, my own humanity has contributed to Cassandra's fear.  One cannot forgive if one lives in fear.  Cassandra needs to find peace and security before she can forgive, before she can love.  Until that time comes, I continue to sing, "Long have I waited for your coming home to me and living, deeply our new lives."